I was going to go late night shopping to get the final bits after the rush hour had passed and my tired wife already was wanting to stand in the way.
I sat around waiting for her say so to leave and when it was given took my iPod from my son who had been doing colours for over half an hour. I had told myself earlier that I would play my film podcasts on the journey. When I took my iPod my wife said "leave him on it he's ok"
I said "no I want it for my journey"
She said "don't worry I'm not going to go rooting through it, you're obviously hiding something on there"
I shouted "I AM LISTENING TO MY FUCKING PODCASTS"
I was told that after all that with Facebook ( having a woman from Ghosthunt on my list) that I was up to no good and not to be trusted. 
All I wanted was to listen to MY podcasts on MY device. It was so unbelievable that I thought well I will stick to my guns. The truth is that I am doing nothing wrong. Why should I change that behaviour to something else? If I'm already in the doghouse why also go without a podcast? 
I had reason to call her about my purchases  so ice had thawed although I was fuming. If rows happen as often as mine it makes more sense to actually speak your mind. I may as well be mad at for my own opinion. But as I returned home quietly ready for part two , she didnt start again. We had an unrelated conversation which patched things up enough. But I tell you all know, I'm done being a shrinking violet and saying what people want to hear. Life is too short to be ducking bullshit accusations as well as things that you've done which are facts.