Refocus

Since our lives are ever evolving and our children etc are changing at such a slow rate that we barely notice from day to day, I must re stamp where I am at on these pages, currently.
I am nine months sober and happier than ever and I don't use the word HAPPIER lightly.
My son's birth inflated me with a zest for my own life by being like a flame to the gas that was choking my brain as my marriage dissolved.
A clarity of vision made all the things in my life seem to point to one conclusion, I was better off being single and I did love myself after all. It's just other people who don't believe in me.
With a film radio show on the horizon and our ghost adventures still snowballing I already am accomplishing more than I gave myself credit for. Fatherhood is my biggest gift to my existence though and it's also the most rewarding. I become more ruthless in my refusal to do anything that I don't want to.


If anything....I feel underestimated by people who believe they know me.
Maybe 2012 will be yet another turning point full of surprises.