I had been told that this weekend I wouldn't get to see my son as his mum had requested that he stay with her, her new bloke and his kids who were down from Newcastle. Cut a long story short.... I forgot.
So there I am stood outside his class as usual to collect him and another bloke steps in as my son comes out. I just think that this bloke is another dad who may know my boy through school etc but as I accost my own son who hasn't seen me he says "this is ********"
I realise that this bloke is my replacement and the suddenness of the meeting made any concern not have time to take place. He seemed really gentle and polite and I responded totally nicely too. That was that, the moment I met him was I over without me knowing it.
I took away a good feeling too that he was just a normal bloke and not the 'new guy' who you imagine will get with your ex who is pure awesomeness and let's be honest... A cunt.
So I came away feeling great.
I think we all benefitted from my mistake in the end. And it's not often I get to say that. Any trepidation I have when his car is there is now nil and was only small to begin with.
Cool beans.
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