My wife was I'll with a cold. She lay through the early evening on the couch whilst everyone tried to go about their usual business. My wife shushed us and said would everyone keep the noise down. It was about 8 pm that even the two year old was being told he was talking too loudly. The tv was off due to my wife in and out of sleep.
Maybe... This makes me look a twat, but I think it's really bad to sleep in the front room as it causes everyone else to live in the bedroom. So these two things are the wrong way round to me. The poorly one should be asleep in bed unless they are well enough to not have to annoy the other four by prohibiting them from normal healthy services. Who falls asleep at 8 and doesn't go to bed when I'll? Women it would seem. If I was that I'll I'd be bed. So at 9pm I put on headphones and watched Rec2 which I was really enjoying. My wife snored loudly for an hour and I didn't shush her once. 
She stirred enough to make some conversation so i paused the film and took headphones off. I couldn't continue then as it would be ignorant. But did she go to bed, no. She lay looking asleep and so I could do nothing but sit in silence not knowing if she was coming round or not. After an hour of this I gave up the fight. 10 pm it was when we went to bed. I find that rude everytime but dare I say so, no.