This morning I have written step son's bestman speech to be read out at his Dads wedding. This is the man I replaced as the head of this family. Very strange, but you have to put all this behind you. I doubt that he will feel wierd about cos he's not bothered. We have to pick the kids the kids up from his wedding reception. So his ex wife or ex wifes new husband will be at his wedding, as I say wierd.