I lost myself successfully in 'Troll Hunter' and 'Sherlock Holmes 2'. Then I enjoyed playing free for all MW3 with a friend for the first time. After letting down my guard to my father, his first act was to get my sons name wrong. I guess he can't be blamed for that. It just means I did a good job of keeping him away. But since I received an apology of sorts I threw him a bone. I don't need any 'what ifs' when I'm on my death bed. It seems ok to give your father an extra bonus last chance. But I'm not got to expand on that because I am not giving him the power. 
So in other news...it's a real struggle to keep my mouth shut and not tell people my business. I decided to not share anything for two weeks on a trial basis but of some reason, although I've done it so far, ive found it incredibly hard. Perhaps we need others to unburden ourselves upon. We often don't require answers from them but it's the sharing that matters. 
Eg. This blog.