I slept better after a couple of pints and not wrestling in the sleeping bag like a modern day Houdini. My ex and I went over the possibilities of changing the car to a smaller one and looking at mortgage rates to give her more chance with money monthly. 
She says that when she thinks that I'm walking out on my son it's like a kick in the stomach. I see it that I'm just moving address and taking him with me and going to work as normal( as I go to work before he gets up), and if she wants a kick in the stomach well she knows where I am.... Normally in my van listening to albums of my youth shouting "I can't believe I got out". 
Seriously for all the obvious accusations of leaving my lad behind... I can't wait to prove them all wrong.