I spoke to the solicitors and she at least  said I was being fair.  I raced to bank and sorted out my own account to have my wage paid into. I couldn't increase my credit card at the moment so I left it. Next up I shot home and boxing my things up was a tougher job than I expected. Hardest of all was reclaiming my dvd's and leaving the kids ones. I called at work to unload and my boss was still there. I thanked him for helping out with my situation. I am in his debt for everything really. Hopefully my transport, employment and housing will all be in his hands. But if I don't mean for  that to ever change then it's a good agreement. 
Thank god I could dump my stuff at work too or I probably would've never left my wife. 
So I reached my wife's work car park before she actually finished. I couldn't just sit and wait. I rang her work and asked for her, but she was on a call so I had to wait a few minutes for her to ring back which was torturous. I asked her to come out to the car park and she knew something was up. The correct words spurted out from my lips followed by her asking me to change my  mind. Soon enough, with a surprising calm voice we were discussing what I proposed as regards money matters. We drove her home for a bit to talk sensibly about money more. There was no shouting but we did get choked from time to time. She basically said I need to be there for my son and to help her through this. 
I  collected my son and took him to Dragon's Den and then briefly to my mums. The kids were ok about everything I was glad to see because of how calm we were. I put my son to bed and showed my potential house to rent on the Internet. She is eager to help me how she can because she wants me to help her financially and emotionally but I made it clear I am out of any relationships for life. 
I could never have anticipated things would actually go so well. One day at a time dear friends, the tide can so easily change.